I'm home sick from school today and was doing the requisite Facebook check when I noticed that a friend of mine who has recently and temporarily moved back to town had written something about rediscovering Fort Wayne and how the downtown is actually kind of cool. Of course, that was met with all kinds of derision from his other friends. My favorite was, "I'm sorry, but there's nothing cool about Fort Wayne." That was written by a person who had lived here as a high schooler but, I think, not since.
I am so sick of people acting like are only about 10 cool places to live in the world (you've heard 'em - San Francisco, New York City, Denver, Portland, Seattle, etc.) and that if you choose anywhere else you are a loser. After wasting a lot of time making mental lists of what I didn't like about this city, I'm becoming more and more convinced that you can enjoy living just about anywhere if you have the right attitude. As my dad used to put it when we would whine as little kids that there was nothing to do, "Only boring people get bored." Once I stopped complaining and started actually trying to enjoy Fort Wayne, I found I really liked it.
I am also sick of people hometown bashing. It is SO immature. And how can you judge a town you never lived in as an adult? ANYPLACE seems lame if your only options are the football game and Applebee's (or, in my hometown's case, Round the Clock, a restaurant that wasn't actually open 'round the clock). Plus, by the way, I feel sorry for people who spent high school hating on their city.
As Amy would say, "Live your life" - and spend less time bashing places other people live (and like).